Emy’s First Birthday

Emanuela Galit Menon, EmyG, Emy, Emyphant, Memy, Memephant: happy 1st birthday. We have a lot to celebrate: you breathed when you weren’t supposed to, you beat the odds many times, and had more good days than bad. You gave us the most joy. Lots of people say their happiest day was the day their child was born. When I reflect on the 5.5 months we had with you (+ 32 weeks and 5 days in utero), the happiest moments were all the ones you were doing well.

During an amnioinfusion, we could see you practice breathing, that was the best day. After we talked with the University of Minnesota and were assured you would receive a life-saving treatment, that was the best day. When you cried, that was the best day. When you opened your eyes, that was the best day. When I held you in my arms, that was the best day. All the days you were learning and growing, those were the best days. When I bottle fed you, that was the best day. When you cooed, that was the best day. When you smiled, that was the best day.

Today is a day to think of all the best days, which were all the days we spent with you. You gave us 5.5 more months than anyone expected. Thank you for your strength and trust, EmyG. Mama and Papa love you.